Rarely talk about this. Why now? It is the result of registering in one of mommies forum. Not to share,just like to read those pages.
The first thread I went through was about relationship with husband after being married/having children. I finished all pages within two days. A whole 68 pages with hundreds posts.
So, then it’s true that being married is very far from easy since all those moms shared how their husband changed after a baby. Mostly not in a good way.
Then,another thread was about In-laws talk. There, everything about the in-laws were shared. Again, mostly not in a good way.
It made me feel a bit embarassed. For being so ungrateful (often). At least, I have a husband and all in-laws that I won’t talk about that way in such forum.
It has not been easy at all for these two years. So much hard work, compromising, patience, while it would be still a bit hard for the next two years. I am talking about le husband’s residency.
But, if I looked back, we had been through lots too. Those things that we didn’t imagine that we could go through safely. Every single thing that I often forget when I was angry to le husband.
Since my head is currently working well, let’s count the major blessings this marriage brings :
– Thank You for giving me such patient, funny, and loveable husband. Although he is messy:/
– Thank You for putting me in such kind family and parents and brothers in-laws and Thank you for not giving me a sister in-law;))
– Thank you for giving me such healthy, funny, adorable daughter through this marriage. I have been living 30 years without her. Being 4 months with her makes me wonder how I can be fine during those 30 years.
So, If someone asks me which one is better between before and after le marriage?
My answer will be : I stand on the right side.